Why men prefer XXX porn over a real women

It was feared that porn would turn men in to sex addicts (increased libido) and they would start to objectify women leading to an increase in rape.

I believe there is a connection between xxx and objectifying women. It may be that guys that objectify women watch a lot or maybe it actually does contribute towards objectification of women.

Instead of turning men into sex addicts looking for women, the reverse has happened, it has turned men off women.

Let’s look at why

1. It goes on and off when you want it to, with no complaining or headaches

2. It does not have its own sexual needs that you need to satisfy

3. You can find the perfect women with the perfect tan, wax, breasts and ass

4. Multiple different sex positions, lesbians and cum in the face (missionary is just not hot enough anymore)

5. Good lighting, acting and camera angles keeps the perfect look

How can real women compete with this?

XXX addiction (libido problems)

If people want to evade feelings of low self-esteem, shame, isolation or the pressures of life, or relationships, porn is the perfect escape. Men are mostly turned on by images therefore porn is a big stimulation for men. Women on the other hand turn to romance novels and chat rooms to get turned on.

A drug addict needs continuous doses and will start to require larger doses each time and this may cause the addict to turn to stronger drugs.

Just like a drug addict xxx addicts also:

1. Need their continuous fixes (Caught an old friend of mine was wanking while on redtube.com in my place after I left him for 5mins)

2. Turn to harder porn as they become desensitized to the softer stuff, normal vaginal penetration turns into anal and then into orgies and so on… fewer women are porn worthy destroying libido

3. Damaging good relationships due to their lust for those false perfect women… also causing a loss in libido

4. They loose their jobs from watching while at work (most online porn is watched between 9am and 5pm)

5. Demotivates guys to actually go out and meet real women…

Wonder why you have libido issues when you with a real women?

Solution

1. Admit that you are an addict and that you need to change it. An addict will never admit that he is an addict, try to stop watching xxx movies for 1 month of your life, if you cant make it then you an addict.

2. Get women in your life… start pick up and take it up very seriously. Bring up this issue with your coach and he will guide you.

3. This is going to sound very weird and hippy but you can also try meditations and spiritual journeys that help you find your own emotions and to connect with others.

4. A good note for xxx: To keep a strong relationship you should be making love and having sex (see sex section for more details). Porn can help amp up the sex in your relationship but she must watch/read it as well. If she agrees to watch with you, don’t put on the hard core bondage anal orgy porn that you have become desensitized to but rather find something that is suitable for her.

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